My friends are harmful for my health

In the fifteen years since I was last gainfully employed and through two alleged economic recoveries that have transpired since that time, it has been an ongoing source of pain to me that not one person I know has connected me with employment. In that time, I have completed a Bachelor’s degree, a Master’s degree, and a Ph.D. It is not like I have nothing to offer.

But to many of my friends, as to the world in general, it is as if I have no value. In my self-introduction page, I write,

Imagine being sealed in a concrete tomb, buried a mile underground. No matter how loudly you scream, no matter how hard you pound your fists on the walls, no one will hear you. This is what my job search often feels like.

But in fact it’s worse. Because some people do hear me. They have a fantasy that something will surely come through for me. They have been saying this, in one form or another, since I lost my last real job in the dot-com crash in 2001. It never happens, but they just carry on with their lives, as year, after year, after year passes.

It is my problem after all, not theirs. But it is a problem I am incapable of solving on my own.

I go on to detail my efforts to find work. But for all that, in all that time, I have had a grand total of three interviews for employment that even remotely reflects my value. I am twisting on the vine here, unable to go anywhere or do anything, because I have so little money. One would think that friends wouldn’t allow friends to suffer so.

But now, with the 2016 election, some of them will surely do something even more egregious. They will vote for one of the presumptive major party candidates. They will do so because, allegedly, “the other guy is worse.”

In doing so, they endorse the sitting president who both is complicit in the war crimes of his predecessor and has committed crimes of his own.[1] They vote for his first Secretary of State, who has been on the wrong side of every major foreign policy issue in the last twenty-five years[2] and who invoked 9/11 in defense of her support for and from Wall Street.[3] Let me say it more directly: My friends are voting in support of war crimes. Because, despite this absolute evil, internationally recognized as such at the end of World War II, “the other guy is worse.”

In voting for this candidate, my friends also vote not only for Wall Street, but for neoliberalism, insider influence, and widening social inequality.[4] And this is where the political becomes personal.

It is neoliberalism that so loves the so-called “free market,” that it seeks to apply market principles even to non-economic dilemmas. It is neoliberalism that so loves so-called “free trade,” that it insists workers are better off disposable, unemployed, hungry, scrambling for what little work they can find, and even homeless than they are paying higher prices (but exorbitant rents are A-OK). It is neoliberalism that scapegoats the poor and eviscerates the social safety net that offers any protection for the poor whatsoever. It is neoliberalism that imagines corporate monopolies as benign and labor unions as the proper subjects of aggressive anti-trust enforcement. It is neoliberalism that devalues a liberal education in favor of job training. It is neoliberalism that celebrates greed and reduces all value to profit and loss.[5] It is neoliberalism that slams the door in my face whenever I think I’ve found one that’s open. My friends are voting for this, too. Because, allegedly, “the other guy is worse.”

Look, I understand that Donald Trump is a horrible person. I get that. But when my friends try to rationalize Hillary Clinton as somehow less horrible, they diminish the evil of my condition. And they move from passively allowing me to twist on the vine to actually taking action to harm me.


  1. [1]Amnesty International, “‘Will I be Next?’ US Drone Strikes in Pakistan,” October 22, 2013,; Jon Boone, “US drone strikes could be classed as war crimes, says Amnesty International,” Guardian, October 21, 2013,; Joseph Brownstein, “Iraq war claimed half a million lives, study finds,” Al Jazeera, October 15, 2013,; Common Dreams, “War Tribunal Finds Bush, Cheney Guilty of War Crimes,” May 13, 2012,; Rupert Cornwell, “Pakistani family gives Congress an unprecedented account of effect of CIA drone attacks on their community,” Independent, October 29, 2013,; Democracy Now! “First Leaked Pakistani Report on U.S. Drone War Undermines Claims of Low Civilian Toll,” July 23, 2013,; Gabriel Domínguez, “Amnesty slams US’ ‘poor record’ of probing civilian killings in Afghanistan,” Deutschewelle, August 11, 2014,; Economist, “The Uncompensated,” August 13, 2014,; Rebecca Gordon, “Crimes of the War on Terror: Should George Bush, Dick Cheney, and Others Be Jailed?” TomDispatch, June 7, 2016,; Glenn Greenwald, “A tribunal in Malaysia applies the Nuremberg Principles to brand the two leaders as war criminals,” Salon, November 23, 2011,; Glenn Greenwald, “Obama’s justice department grants final immunity to Bush’s CIA torturers,” Guardian, August 31, 2012,; Human Rights Watch, “‘Between a Drone and Al-Qaeda’: The Civilian Cost of US Targeted Killings in Yemen,” October 2013,; Michael Isikoff, “US has killed far more civilians with drones than it admits, says UN,” NBC News, October 17, 2013,; Rania Khalek, “Drone Victims Tell Empty US House Their Story; Is America Listening?” Truthout, November 1, 2013,; Jonathan S. Landay, “Obama’s drone war kills ‘others,’ not just al Qaida leaders,” McClatchy, April 9, 2013,; Heather Linebaugh, “I worked on the US drone program. The public should know what really goes on,” Guardian, December 29, 2013,; David Phillips, “DOJ pursues immunity for Bush and six others for Iraq war crimes,” Las Vegas Democrat Examiner, June 26, 2014,; Special Rapporteur on the promotion and protection of human rights and fundamental freedoms while countering terrorism, Ben Emmerson, United Nations Human Rights Council Rep. No. A/HRC/25/59 (2014); Dennis Stute, “‘We have a culture of immunity’,” Deutschewelle, March 20, 2012,; Jonathan Turley, “Wounded Soldier Writes Letter About Pain And Being Forced To Commit War Crimes In Iraq . . . Then Commits Suicide,” July 13, 2013,; Declan Walsh and Ihsanullah Tipu Mehsud, “Civilian Deaths in Drone Strikes Cited in Report,” New York Times, October 22, 2013,
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  3. [3]James Downie, “Hillary Clinton’s unbelievable defense of Wall Street contributions,” Washington Post, November 15, 2015,; New York Times, “Hillary Clinton Botches Wall Street Questions,” November 15, 2015,; Janell Ross, “Hillary Clinton invoked 9/11 to defend her ties to Wall Street. What?” Washington Post, November 15, 2015,
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